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Tips for Flying with Kids

Ok, so you’ve got a family vacation coming up. And you get to fly to your destination! Are you excited? A little nervous? Or maybe a lot nervous? Well read on for tips to calm your nerves and keep your sanity when flying with kids.

You’re looking forward to getting on that plane to finally BE ON vacation, but that little voice in the back of your mind is reminding you of all that could possibly happen.

Will they run off and get captured by a stranger? Unlikely.

Will they fall and break their arm while running around the swimming pool, even though you’ve told them 100 times not to? Probably not.

Will they have an allergic reaction while eating shell fish at a beautiful beach destination? Well, we’ll hope not.

Will they fall off the dock while petting the dolphins and get stung by a sting ray? Seriously, what are the odds of that?

Vacations are for memories

You will make memories that last a lifetime, and stories to tell for years. You will probably take a gazillion pictures, and friend, you might even get a great one of the whole family smiling at the camera.

You’ll show your kids that life can be different than their normal, everyday routine, and that new places can be a lot of fun. You will feel stressed at times, but overjoyed at others. Just being real here!

Vacations are all about the experience, and flying with kids is part of it!

So before I get to the best tips for flying with kids, let me tell you, 15 years ago I never thought I’d be writing an article about flying tips!

I used to be an anxious wreck, who often times got motion sick when flying. But each flight it gets a little easier and today I can hop on a plane to a dreamy bucket list destination with very little anxiety.

Ok, so let’s dive in.

sleeping kid on airlplane

Photo credit: Nikki’s travels. Getting some sleep (yes, her seatbelt was on!)

Here’s how I (and my husband) manage to keep our sanity when flying with kids:

1. Set some rules before you go

Talk to your kids about listening while on the plane and in the airport, why it’s important, and what will happen if they don’t. This obviously works depending on the age of your kids, but even for little toddlers it’s important to remind them over and over again.

2. Keep your hand-held items minimal

Whenever you’re flying with kids, you want your hands available to help. Take a back-pack or cross-body purse as a carry-on for a flight. This way you’re not carrying a purse, suitcase or bag that requires a hand.

Use those shoulders! Make sure your important items (phone, passport, ticket, wallet) are within an easy to reach pocket.

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3. Bring snacks. Snacks. SNACKS! And more snacks.

Try to pack (and hand out) healthy snacks first like apples, bananas or trail mix. Next I’d recommend items that take a long time to eat, like suckers and mints.

You may also want some crackers or other foods for fillers in case of delays.

Pro tip: if you’re traveling internationally, make sure you bring everything in the original package, so buy snack portions.

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4. Bring a water bottle for you AND one for your kids.

Pack your own empty extra water bottle. This is a staple for flying with kids! You can seriously save so much money on your trip by refilling your own cup. After you get through security, fill it up before you get on the plane.

Bonus: you won’t have to wait for your in-flight drink and snack.

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5. Prepare for motion sickness

If your kids have ever complained about being car sick, or don’t like amusement park rides, you’d better think about what to do if they get sick on the plane.

I definitely can’t give medical advice, but ginger, mints and essential oils are a great place to start for little tummies.

These motion sickness wrist bands are a safe alternative to medication, too!

6. Pick a window seat for your kid

If it’s the first time you’re flying with kids, it can be great entertainment for them to watch out the window. A window seat can also help with motion sickness, too.

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7. Pack activities for your kids in their own backpack

As a general rule, let them bring only activities that will fit in their backpacks, that they can carry. And think seriously about letting them bring their favorite well-loved toy, unless they are at an age where they understand the consequences of leaving it behind.

celebrating kids first flight on tarmac

Photo credit: Nikki’s travels. Landed – yes!!

8. New activities and things to do

It’s really fun for young kids to present them with new little toys and games throughout the flight to keep boredom from creeping in.

Also think about clever, interactive games like Eye Spy. It works in the car, so why not the airport? There’s so much to see between people-watching, shops and restaurants.

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9. Don’t bring rolling toys or activities on a plane!

No cars, markers, balls, etc. I learned this early on when traveling with my toddler years ago! Because coloring is a great way to pass the time, I do recommend taking some supplies with you, like these triangle-shaped crayons.

10. Tablets or hand-held electronics are a life saver

Be sure to sync content before you go! You won’t have WiFi on the plane, or at least not enough to download content, and the last thing you want is to be stressed out at the airport while you’re trying to download favorite shows.

Also don’t forget headphones for your kids. Planes are very noisy and your kids will need them.

11. Sync kids games to your phone

You just never know when a battery will die! This is all about being prepared, friend!

flying with kids take a tablet

Photo credit: Nikki’s travels

12. Bring a small blanket for the airport

I’ve seen another (genius) mom do this at the airport during a layover. She basically set up a tablet for her little ones to watch and told them they could lay down and hang out to relax as they were watching the movie as long as they stayed on the blanket.

13. Bring layers

The temperature in planes can be extreme, so be prepared by packing layers in your carry-on. You’ll want to leave space in your kid’s backpack for activities and toys.

14. Have your kids potty several times before getting on the plane

This is also an area that you could talk to your kids about in advance. Reiterate the importance of going potty as many times as you ask them to, so they’ll just accept it at the airport. Then make sure you go after security.

I’d recommend about ten minutes before boarding begins, if possible. Keep in mind that lines at airports and during the flight can be long so try to manage it ahead of time.

As much as you can prepare, just know that when nature calls, there’s not much you can do about it except to be understanding.

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15. Plan plenty of time

This one is SUPER important! We all know, everything takes longer with kids. When you’re planning your trip, if you have multiple flight options, always go for the one with the longer layover.

So if you’re given the option of one hour or two, choose two. This allows time for potty breaks, snacks, and getting from one terminal to the next.

Likewise, plan to arrive at the airport extra early on your way to vacation and back home. Everyone is less stressed out when you have ample time at the airport.

16. Bring your patience

Traveling can be stressful on parents and kids. Remember that the airport might be a new place for your kids, so they might want to explore and ask lots of questions.

Meanwhile, all you want to do is to get to the gate. Make a commitment ahead of time to bring your patience during the flight and all the connections.

Some things will go great when you’re flying with kids, and you may have something unexpected happen at the airport or during your flights. But you know what? That’s ok.

You will get to your destination, and I’m 99% sure you will have a great vacation. You will create experiences that you can cherish, and maybe a few you can learn from!

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So, are you ready to go flying with kids?

Flying with kids can be fun, if you approach it with the right mindset. It’s time to assume the best and have a great trip!

Before you start packing, comment below with your greatest take-away from this article. Happy flying! 🙂

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Wednesday 5th of February 2020

Great list! On point!


Thursday 6th of February 2020

Oh thanks so much! Glad you found it helpful :)


Saturday 29th of June 2019

I have flown all my life, some of these are just good flight tips over-all. But a few (like triangle shaped crayons) are good for kids, that I wouldn’t have thought of. I’m about to travel with mine for the first time, so it’s good to share!


Saturday 29th of June 2019

Thanks Elizabeth! So glad you found this helpful. Enjoy your upcoming flight!


Friday 28th of June 2019

I have a question about their ears, I’m so worry about ear ache for my two year old. I get the ear ache and I’m afraid she will too. What do I do for takeoff and landing to help her with that?


Friday 28th of June 2019

Hi Gigi! You could give your daughter suckers, mints or ginger candies for take off and landing. Really anything to keep her mouth busy. If she knows how to blow her nose, the best way to pop her ears when she feels the pressure is to hold her nose closed and ask her to blow (trying to push air through her nose) while you're holding it shut. That creates opposite pressure and will allow her ears to pop. You could practice at home before the flight in hopes that once she's on the plane it will work. Hope the flight goes well! Good luck! :)

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Tuesday 26th of February 2019

Your best tip is patience! Ha H I also like the idea of layers you never know what the temp will be in the plane. Great Advice!!


Tuesday 26th of February 2019

Thanks Teresa! Love taking the kids on vacation, but not necessarily all the time in airports. Patience is so important to get through it. Thanks for stopping by the blog today. :)


Tuesday 11th of September 2018

I'm bookmarking this so I can come back to review as we are packing for our upcoming trip! 14 hours on a plane with a two-year-old is bound to get interesting!


Tuesday 11th of September 2018

Awesome, Katie! Pinning it on a board in Pinterest always helps me keep travel-related tips for future, too! And 14 hours on a plane - yikes! Good luck with your flight!! :)